Honoring Yourself Through Change

Life is full of change.  If your life has been the exact same for an extended period of time, chances are you haven't been making change.  Change does not need to be drastic.  Many people often feel change must be major in order to "make a difference".   It doesn't be.  Change can be as simple as flossing your teeth after every meal instead of once a day, so you avoid cavities at your next dental visit.  That is a simple act that has long-term, positive impact on your health.

When we think about change, it can be uncomfortable and daunting or it can be inspiring and uplifting.  Change is active.  It turns a possibility into a reality.  If one continuously works to make change, that person is likely to grow into making more change.  Change isn't forced upon someone, it's initiated from within.  Sometimes people try to change each other but the fact is we can only change ourselves.

Don't change because someone wants you to.  It will lead to resentment or frustration for all parties involved.  Know who you are, what you stand for and don't succumb to the ideals or standards that others want to hold you to.  Work to put yourself into situations where your standards and ideals are shared among those around you.  This could applies to romantic relationships, working relationships and friendships.  Don't accept anything lesser because it seems like the right thing to do.  Do what is best for you.  This level of commitment to self will influence the commitments you make with everyone else in your life.