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| Tracy and her husband, Jim |
When I get asked how I met my husband of 10 years, I answer, “It was totally random.” I get a look of surprise because it truly was happenstance. I was walking out of my place of employment to find an event being hosted by the company my husband worked for at the time. A colleague asked me to join the conversation he was having, so I did. There I met a variety of people, one of whom is now my husband. Looking back on that situation, I don’t know if I would’ve met him knowing the way we use technology today.
Let’s imagine that instead of me looking around and catching the attention of my colleague, I was texting on my phone or on a call. My colleague would’ve noticed I was “busy” and probably would not have invited me to join his conversation – thereby missing my chance to meet my husband.
In just talking to a co-worker about the fact far too many people are spending their time in lines, bars, restaurants, waiting rooms, cars, stores, parks, beaches and streets while on their phones means they’re staring more at a screen than the people around them.
When was the last time you found yourself in casual conversation with someone randomly because you were in the same place at the same time? This is how acquaintances, friendships, and relationships come about – by interacting with each other in the environment we’re in. It’s enjoying the moment and making the most of it.
Take a week without using your phone other than to actually talk to someone. Look around you. Observe and interact with the people you’re sharing a place or experience with. You may be surprised with who you meet.
