Are You in Love with Not Getting What You Want?

In your relationships, do you give in, concede and just let things be even though you know you don’t want to?  After you agree to something with your partner do you feel exhausted?  Do you ever desire to receive something (sometimes anything!) from your partner but feel that it’s just impossible?  

If any of these sound familiar, you may be in love with not getting what you want.  

When we’re in love with not getting what we want we sacrifice ourselves, sometimes unknowingly, in order to maintain peace and happiness within the relationship.  This may make your partner happy but it’s unlikely to be making you happy.  If you’re not feeling it now, you will eventually.  You will wake up one day and realize your pain.  You’ll find that the attempts to please someone else have been making you miserable.  

This is going to be a tough day but one you can get through.  You’ll be forced to evaluate the relationship and most importantly, your behavior.  You will decide if you want to make yourself in love with getting what you want.  You will decide if you want to remain in the relationship.  You will come to a conclusion that is best for you now, not what’s best for the you who was in love with not getting what you wanted.